Re: can u give me advice of a problem with a friend?

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This message was posted by Shane, posted on June 28, 2000 at 10:40:12 coming from 64.23.166
This message is a reply to Re: can u give me advice of a problem with a friend? posted from Rick posted at June 27, 2000 at 22:27:51
> > > Im losing my best friend to a guy what should i do??

> > I don't know what to tell you Sarah, I guess just wait and see what happens for now.

> > Anyone else have anything better to say about this?

>
> Hi Sarah,

> I've seen this scenario plenty of times. You're not actually losing your friend-- What is probably happening is your friend is spending alot of time with her boyfriend and you feel neglected. She is excited about her new relationship- new love is very exciting espacially for young people- so she is spending most of if not all of her free time with this guy. You probably feel neglected or think that she is blowing you off, but the feelings that she is feeling right now are not going to last forever. Eventually the feelings that she has will wear off and sooner or later they will bicker or argue just like any other friendship and she will want a friend for comfort or to confide in. So my advice to you is to hang in there and be ready for her to come to when she is good and ready. If she is a good friend of yours she'll come running to you sooner or later. Who knows maybe you'll meet a guy and she'll feel the same way that you do right now if she breaks up with this guy in the future. Well I hope this helps a little. :c)

> Rick}}}}}}

Bravo Rick, that was good. That is all so true, from what I've seen.


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